An important concept in counseling is "empathy." Word empathy comes from the Greek empatheia, where em is "in" path and the "feeling". So this word means "feeling inside, experience and capacity of involvement, understanding and experience of feelings that a man has or inside. Empathy means understanding the inner world of another person's feelings and identify with it. Counselor is empathy for how to share internal life of other people. From "outside" the adviser can understand different parts of the "interior" consiliatului.
A servant who has developed a capacity empathy can comprehend or understand what is behind the reactor, challenges and feelings of a person. Such a servant has a greater ability to face these reactions in a manner appropriate and wise and not let too easily led by their feelings.Capacity empathy is a central place in counseling and is based both on personality and adviser on his experiences of meeting with other people. Empathy is the ability to switch from live feeling! Intellectual Assessment of the situation. Therefore, the counselor should also develop the capacity to face their feelings and the ability to communicate their feelings with others. Empathy does not answer questions consiliatului and you worry with it, but walk with it a while and you share life.
Many of our personal skills develop early, even during childhood. As adviser is important to you and keep you permanently develop "the ability of empathy." In a relationship-advice empathy develops in three steps. When the counselor listen and perceive a sense, the Understanding empathy.Therefore advise that emits signals behavior empathy, for example, through gestures, words, voice or touch, thus showing that there is this agreement. Then follow the confirmation of empathy from receiving aid-such as understanding of perceived empathy to understand adviser. And this confirmation can be achieved by words, gestures and positive answers. In other words, empathy is a relationship between adviser and advised.
Empathy have also understood in a larger context. A concept that appeared at the beginning of 2000 - about the care and protection of labor rights is "contextual empathy. The term comes from the word meaning the context-fact state of things in a certain time. This includes the ability to judge correctly the environment in which lives and moves the client. It is important we can correctly solve the present situation, so that we can better PERSON!.In fact since the 1990s came the expression "social competence" which is used to describe a person's ability to report correctly and successfully to other people. Johny Alm a consultant - the organization has formulated a practical definition of the concept of "social competence" which contains six parts.
First social competence is the ability to determine quickly connect with other, to successfully initiate a contact. This involves creating an interest towards the other person, without communication conflicts and developing trust.In this way it creates conditions for continued collaboration. In counseling this means that it is important we can quickly establish a first contact to work ... but not just the surface.Secondly, social competence is the ability to use the contact set in a mutually productive exchange. Productivity - is one that generates a positive result for both sides. In counseling this means that important work is honest, the counselor is, indeed, present.
In counseling this means that important work is honest, the counselor is, indeed, present. Thirdly, social competence is the ability to maintain communication with everyone, regardless of the values, interests or other specific other person. The advice - this means the ability to have relationships and to collaborate, even if the distance between REAL life consiliatului adviser and is very high.Social competence is in the fourth-place capability to transform the simple touch of the start in a channel, transforms it into a deep communication. There are different dimensiunule allow life to go out and the complexity of the relationship to grow.This means the ability to allow both LENGTH and depth of life in the areas of collaboration. Social competence in the V-th row means the ability of a progressive and constructive exchange dealing. No longer strangers to one another. Provide and receive information, feelings and understanding. In counseling this means the ability to submit changes and constructive solutions.
Social competence (VI century) all mean the ability to face difficult questions of life-in this collaboration, to be understanding and mature enough to resist even if the communication is apasatoare, difficult. Counseling in this means the ability to endure what is essential and significant in life, even if it is inconvenient and traumatic. The concept of "contextual empathy" shows us that it is important to have the capacity to meet both the individual's context, and context in itself. Understanding and correct interpretation of the environment in which the individual lives his life has a great significance.
Nobody living for himself. Nobody lives in an isolated environment. We are all influenced by incessant suvoiul impression that you need to keep for ourselves. Such advice - be done in this comprehensive. Consiliatul so that the person's problems and be seen from the perspective of his entire life. Empathy means AI Knowledge life.
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