Room for sentiment "important function of cleaning," we all have a soul whether woman or man "So men cry sometimes :-) Often that advice is going to be overwhelmed by many different feelings, even feelings, which are sometimes called "negatives" such as rautatea, aggression, mania, amaraciunea, hatred, envy and jealousy. In the process of counseling should be given room to show even those feelings.They exist and can not be denied or stop. One of the major responsibilities and hear when listening to these feelings is the power to face, to address and support.
There is always a source of these feelings, experience and experiments. Although we can not always identify these links, feelings need to be addressed and processed. Removing out of discussing their feelings and can be very threatening and painful.We all have a sentimental life, processing of feelings can take time, but leads eventually to the healing and liberation. It also must have room for plans. Plans are always a message. Therefore, it is important to listen. Plans to open the path so you can go and where words have no access. Plans are an important function of cleaning, it is "laundry soul.
Of course in our culture there is room for plans. There are unwritten cultural laws that we can run more than suspect us. Do not cry in different circumstances of life is power and quickness. Tears in our society is something private and often very carefully concealed. Many people say that can not cry, though it will do.It is interesting to take a look back in history on plans, in our part of the world, in Europe. Plans were not always as we perceive today in November. Middle Ages people were used to strong feelings. Everybody cry, both women and men, regardless of their social position. Tears were something beautiful and enlightening.
INABILITY to cry was considered a mental disorder. Even in the years 1500-1600 it was normal to show feelings in public. In the Swedish parliament, is often heard one complained vociferously. Tears were all allowed regardless of position, age or sex. This openness has continued through the years until 1700. A beautiful "culture" complained develop. Plans were regarded as something noble.In early 1800 - has produced a change. Plans disappeared, which was customized to the public on feminizat above it. Now it was inappropriate for a man to cry. In the second half of 1800 years was crying already considered funny, something that was found only in women and children. It was not appropriate to show your strong feelings in public. Plans indicate weakness and sentimentalism.
In 1900, the mentality has remained almost the same. Plans but it is useful to man. If you miss the tears become more poor. Plans do well the entire body. When people cry is issued hormone called acetylcholine. It helps relax tense muscles. After you cry you feel wonderful, pleasant experience fatigue and a body is at rest.Did you show any emotions is quite natural
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