Empathy-Service

Slujirii principle applies to work in counseling, because there is a danger in the nature of the situation to assist a temptation as one that helps to take a role in the relationship with the wrong consiliatul. Servant role is to strengthen the initiative consiliatului and not to seek to have authority over him.Pregnancy servant is free not to create dependency. His goal is to help for a while, not to be indispensable.This means that the help should be interested consiliatului sake and not for his tendency to exercise authority over it and need to be recognized.

In short it means to serve people from outside, not inside. We 're thinking with joy to the true love that unites people and tzese vietzi together. But in a situation to help the opposite is true, to love lives of people outside.Keeper merdical strives to facilitate patient insanatosirea for quick to go back to a life that does not have need of care. Social worker helps the client to live an independent life, I have no need of social assistance. When students leave school, teachers will be to see both strong and will meet, and in terms of skills.Adviser goal is not to work with consiliatii a long time, but help to return to an independent life. Is an expression of love, of the same is excessive. The hardest is true empathy and connects this with the need to work out in life and counseled the person inside. This requires both reflection and training involves both aware and a clarity of role. There is a paradoxical about all this: The Love MORE, the suffering MORE, so you must work outside in one's life, so as not to create dependency on us.

There are even parents-those who see their children growing small through youth and maturity-reaching that I do not know if life is trying to possess someone, no matter how minute, are not only law and close.Our task is to go to each others own growth and for an extension of life in many dimensions.Through this process of sharing love, we go people while our direct presence in their lives is reduced .. but that does not mean that our love for them is smaller. Instead ... .... true love is so free and liberating, and it is never confirmed by the dependence or submission. Therefore servant empathy is a "facilitator" not an intermediary but a mediator, a supporter, one need help, but without law.

Counselor-to this way of working people's life, not to create dependency is a matter of survival. It is desirable to involve exaggerated consiliatului much alive, and so afectandu integrity. It is not fair that to happen.
Primarily to serve ... Without abuse. Never consiliatul not be or behave in a certain way for the counselor, for the sake of it. At that help should not be using any one person or situation for them to solve their own disappointments or to strengthen their self image.