It is good for children to attend a model of civilized discussion between adults, so they understand that people who love you may have moments that do not agree, but then held up to a real show yelling in your little girl is long distance! Family arguments in front of children have become more frequent lately. Children who live in a violent family were most affected. The risk of infantile depression, the feeling of guilt, the anxiety of abandonment is increased.
Often we believe that children do not hear or understand contradictory in discussions we have with our life. In a fight, adults butter so absorbed by their state of anger, irritation of not thinking that any moment where the child is, what do you hear, how much affect it. Others send the child to him in the room or postpone the discussion for later when the child is asleep.Children become very frightened by the prospect of divorce parents when I see them fighting it, you might think they are to blame when parents do not understand. Such children will be uncertain in establishing interpersonal relationships and solitude of childhood will be extended at maturity. Subsequently, such a situation generates a behavior similar to that of the family in which the child grew.
State that when they were trying small - distress, insecurity, lack of confidence in themselves and in adults near her sadness, impotence in the face of large and their gestures - is reflected in their adult personality. When arguing parents, children hear boards reproval, yelling, they see their parents' emotions from the tone of their voice and are terrified of them. Though he did not understand the words, do not know meaning they remain in memory and return with time. There are people that support is better than the small to know what happens and even il involve the child being put to even choose between mother and father. (But this is not wise - and create preferential and preferential system).
Are children who leave home when parents are fighting, others are put in their fight, others take advantage of the hostility between the parents and ask what the other one he refused, some are hiding in fear, some girl and others die of fear. When I see scenes of quarreling parents feel children fear abandonment, shock, sadness, pain and despair. It is important for children to learn how to express their discontent orally, not through violence. Children can get violent in nature, and discussions that will carry their parents will turn into quarrels.
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