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I think this is crazy

Of thinking

A terrorist

Hospital

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Deserve to smile

To smile now

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Phases at weddings

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A Super Sequence

Fools Day

It is very funny to start a contest orgarnizam on Fools Day ...

And that we do ... We will launch concursul.ceea you need to do is write the most fun trick that you intend to do this year or in 2009 the greatest trick of previous years...

Sibiu has a very old bridge Ancestors say ... as this bridge is string evening many soldiers ... There are very many friends connect, what is more funny in this intimplare these soldiers is that they love to call a meeting. Sera .. no sign of a soldier, a girl ... it was coming and was named the bridge: Bridge of Liars ...

We will post a vidioclip to be slightly amused...

Now is your turn ... postati the best trick you have done it and people loved not only

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Contest MissEmo

We decided to orgarnizam competitive fashion and called MissEmo ... You can participate in this contest each with a note, that depending on your feedback.

If this contest will bear fruit orgarniza more often this contest to select a Miss or Mister among the young emo...

If you have a picture and want to put your blog to participate in the contest ... do not hesitate and send it by e-mail: bestemosib@hotmail.com

The competition will last 30 days ... success

There Is Love At First Sight.

True love can not build on a brief. We can see the talent or look, and someone we can admire him, but true love is a gentle and strong attachment to being inside the other. We like someone's personality, but must be discovered, admired and respected before he could speak of love. You have to differentiate between love and appetite.We live in a time of nicotine fit. Cinema, television, internet and many magazines have aligned in order to cancel the constraints which they impose decency standards and sense about relationships before marriage (the curtare) and marriage.

Because of teaching garish and neglect, the influence of color very much the consequence tinerilor.In on furnitures reception rooms, in cars parked in the camps, the youth walks through the park is divided mangaieri, and often do, and that step follows naturally (masturbation and adultery).They seem to believe that such desfranari are signs of true love. There is not so! Young, a hundred women would awaken in you the same desires. Love is who she is veedre; appetite starts from what it is. Relationship before marriage is based on standards of knowledge and mangaierile between unmarried persons are not part of the moral or the seven years from home.

1. Mangaierile will remove and destroy the self - Starnit a desire which no mangaierea itself can satisfy. Mangaierea is not an end in itself but is a preparatory stage. Normally, the body begins to prepare for different functions. When a person feels hungry smell food, your mouth starts her saliva, and stomach in gastric juices form. Friica determine certain glands to secrete substances that the body prepare for action violence. Equally, mangaierile stimulates the body and we prepare for the sacred union.It is the purpose mangaierilor, but in addition they lead to marriage or abortion in the worst case to abandon ... We miramos why there is so many investment centers pote where thousands of children without parents.

There are moments in the relationship between a man and a woman when the self and reason are impossible, and self-respect can be affected forever. First Women's wise to protect against this betrayal is to appreciate that her emotions are amplified not only possible, and it is natural and normal. The best method of defense is a total lack of confidence in her ability to say no at the right time.Belief that every woman can make a erotic manifestations in a certain point before it can give full, a trap dangerous concoction of romantic .... not very many mothers today warns his daughters in the house that the kiss is intended to be a aperitif, not the table "said Marion Hillard, MD sefa Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital for Women (Women College Hospital) in Toronto.

2. Mangaierile stimulates "passion": "Therefore, kill your members which are on earth: curve, unpeeled, passion"Hundreds of couples will bring with them in the tomb of dark memories friendships that went beyond the limits, violating constraints and firm conviction educationale.Atunci when someone is born in fervent desire, the power will be destroyed and poftele will go beyond moral restraint and will not stop until it will not be satisfied by adultery.

3. Are harmed ... sensual sensuality is expressed by actions or manners frivole, carelessly: dirty words, body movements of indecent, immoral way to refer to men or women. These words mangaierile describe.How many of you mothers have talked to your daughters about these issues ? Why did not it ? Why do all parents think that their infants are different ? Why parents sealed their mouths invoking a false shame and leaving his children to burn, his pateze conscience or heart-break because of lack of education about these events ? Your children are about to learn how to operate their bodies and emotions.If you do not learn from you, will learn from other children, often with a lot of scenes obscene, vulgar stories, pictures and dirty distorted facts.

4. Harmed seriously thinking pure and correct,harmed 'hurry always get to go on.These events will tickle any normal person. Young people who can not stay calm and not be happy in the other, probably not live true love. Attraction towards each other only by the sexually and physically.

Arguing Parents Affect Children

It is good for children to attend a model of civilized discussion between adults, so they understand that people who love you may have moments that do not agree, but then held up to a real show yelling in your little girl is long distance! Family arguments in front of children have become more frequent lately. Children who live in a violent family were most affected. The risk of infantile depression, the feeling of guilt, the anxiety of abandonment is increased.

Often we believe that children do not hear or understand contradictory in discussions we have with our life. In a fight, adults butter so absorbed by their state of anger, irritation of not thinking that any moment where the child is, what do you hear, how much affect it. Others send the child to him in the room or postpone the discussion for later when the child is asleep.Children become very frightened by the prospect of divorce parents when I see them fighting it, you might think they are to blame when parents do not understand. Such children will be uncertain in establishing interpersonal relationships and solitude of childhood will be extended at maturity. Subsequently, such a situation generates a behavior similar to that of the family in which the child grew.

State that when they were trying small - distress, insecurity, lack of confidence in themselves and in adults near her sadness, impotence in the face of large and their gestures - is reflected in their adult personality. When arguing parents, children hear boards reproval, yelling, they see their parents' emotions from the tone of their voice and are terrified of them. Though he did not understand the words, do not know meaning they remain in memory and return with time. There are people that support is better than the small to know what happens and even il involve the child being put to even choose between mother and father. (But this is not wise - and create preferential and preferential system).

Are children who leave home when parents are fighting, others are put in their fight, others take advantage of the hostility between the parents and ask what the other one he refused, some are hiding in fear, some girl and others die of fear. When I see scenes of quarreling parents feel children fear abandonment, shock, sadness, pain and despair. It is important for children to learn how to express their discontent orally, not through violence. Children can get violent in nature, and discussions that will carry their parents will turn into quarrels.

Winners Do Not Quit

We selected a few thoughts that I like I hope to put the thoughts and discover yourself these truths.

1.Brave people who are not ever wrong, but not those who never quit.

2.Failure may be in his belly that success is born

3.The day after the battle is more important than eve of battle

4.Fundamental art of communication is the ability to listen

5.Love is the desire to do good to others even to the detriment of your love that wants to offer

6.Just as forgiveness relationship opens the door, so open the door giving success

7.Distance is measured in kilometers, but in the affection

8.The greatest poverty of life has to do with money but with spirit. The greatest wealth of life not found in money, but friendships that you

9.Not even one of the things that came into your life, did not come to stay there forever .... always .... all come and go on (friends, health, family, career, finances)

10.
No matter how violent the storm is, the sun always shines

11.Remember: It's easy to get-just keep (any car in life .. .. marriage)

12.We must be willing to assume responsibility for failure, before being able to take responsibility victory.

13.The crisis is a normal thing in life crisis is the norm, no one can live life without crize.Criza is the natural result arising from the change,The crisis does not mean failure. It's just a

Choose Which Remains

"The two most important objects in our house are mirrors weigh. We care how we look, we are concerned with our outer appearance, physically.We like to be well dressed, elegant, to be presentable. They say that clothes makes the man. But often, behind an expensive suit and the company is hiding a troubled heart pain.

Behind us our appearance remains inside. What we get rid of the new fact is most important, beautiful interior.The greatest treasure of this world onto a new beauty of our soul, a good hearted, compassionate, loving, forgiving. In front of all the beauties on the miss world palesc, pier. No room for competition.Even if I change something outside of our not forget that we have an inner beauty that we care.

What makes the charm of a man is his kindness. Beauty lies in human kindness, stay in love. We have the most valuable thing in November.If the world price would put the soul would be best. But living in a world of discrimination, of hatred, a rautatii. And that because we look at what izbeste eye.A gentle soul, delight does a good man and full of love. A sensitive soul makes you attentive to the needs of those around. And so there will be love in the world! Contempland love not find anything that we stumble, anything that we hit.

Beauty is not only a horrendous, it is a mysterious thing.

Love - Porcelain Trinket

Do not grudge anything good if you substitute for love, cheap and diluted, but there's no good to mummy, awaiting the perfect pair, or dream of being the apparent real with you trupologie them gen-ica. Idealistic love is possible only between the protagonists of Holly-Wood (Woody ciocănitorii children). Speaking of which, is favored toposul psychiatrists, lawyers and detectives. The actors speak blah-blah-ROMs and large tam-tam's, but change their wives, wives as socks. Most will story of love, are commercial, predictable pigiste targeted by hintălăi dreamers, nonsense challenged blameful of thinkers and critics, profunzi, gluttonous reality.

Many have remained unmarried, with makeup and background putregăit dry, with hands on mobile prehistoric and dentures addition mIRC. Can not sleep the whole night, giving hand depression, you can learn and love to have stalled. No more waiting for nice girl, prince of the film, the superb actor in all areas, or ball-was-istul popular. I will wait on Barbie, Miss 2008. Calderon wrote a play on the famous theme ancestral "la vida es sueño", when faptico, reality is cruel. A lot of people creates a parallel reality of this. Girls want a Don Juan, instead of Don Hammer. Let the Exeter and Zburătorul. Lower your Dudului of prestige, perfection, falsităţii exacerbated.

A lot of films categorized as love-story is just miraculous dreams, leading to divorce, disappointments, and despair despartirea because when you go to the movies, you see that the prince and buy a star in the sky and compare it with your friend did not buy or even pop-corn. Look at gross dressed smart, they buy a sweet garden of roses, while the boyfriend she brought only a snowdrop, and that wilting. The film like the smell good on screen, but your boyfriend smells like glue, because it works as you can go to the movies.

You realize that your friend is not too good. You realize that your girlfriend is a bit of fat as the film that has wrinkles, baskets of epidermis and part of whitish color throughout her hair. It is because that is breaking a lot, say psychological studies. The ring will not be offered any kind marvel Captain Planet. Majoritatatea they create a mental movie, but life beats the movie.

Reveille of dream is painful, but important. Post Scriptum: Guys, girls go to horror movies, can say, "Why am glad you are with me." No longer go to the love-story links.

Decision Determine Destiny

You justify yourself to anyone again. To the person who loves you does not need it and not the person who loves you will not believe.

Do not let someone become priority in your life when you're only an option in his ...The best relationships are those in balance.

Morning when we wake we have only two alternatives: to get back to sleep and dream, or wake us and follow those dreams.

The choice is ours only. I do cry to those who worry about us. Plangem for those who do not and never worried about us. And worry for those who will never cry for us. That is the reality of life, strange but true.

Do not make promises if you're happy. Do not answer if you're sad. Do not make decisions if you're upset. Think twice. Time is like a river. You can achieve the same drop twice, because the flow that passed will not go again.

Need to do ordinary things with extraordinary love ...

Communication

If people today do not even know to speak, is because I know not to use asculte.Nu nothing good to talk: we have to talk fast to get to finish before falling another answer, and did not get it.
Can you say anything, anyway - is useless: you are immediately stopped.

The conversation is a kind of scissors, cut short about each neighbor.Henry David Thoureau acknowledged: "the greatest compliment I was ever made was when someone asked me my opinion and listened carefully to the answer"

'An hour of conversation worth more than fifty letters' (Madame de Sevigne)...Being able to listen to your interlocutor is an art that quite a few possess. Among the most blunder encountered include listening interlocutor interruption.

It is usually the most horrid in terms of hearing. Those accustomed to discontinue not spend their time listening to what they say, but formulându their own response. Being interested only their ideas, they do not give too much attention to the words of others, but expects a propitious moment when to intervene with a "Oh, this is nothing.

Let me see what happened to me! "Gesture par excellence shows a poor growth and a partner desconsideraţie. When someone interrupts, not only do step over that person's ideas and this is just rude, and sometimes , as painful as if you break the person up.

Empathy-Images Of Themselves

In assessing the value of a human role conception has decided on our own lives.Today in society there is a clear tendency to subordinate the rights and interests of economic efficiency. Live day to bilblioteca a notitza written at the end of a book with pen quote ... " Rivers are lost in the sea, such as interest in the virtues. "Man today is valued by its functionality and usefulness to society, instead of being treated by his own value. Every man has his value and is unique, every person is unique and has its own value at the beginning of his life until the end of them. This concept of man breaking in deep and totally new in mind, in attitudes, in words and in our deeds. One of the biggest tasks of the adviser is to be the bearer of the correct image.

Fundamental relationship between people should be a relationship of "me-you" and "I-it". Who seek help from us is unique and we can not reduce it to a "case" or a "problem".PERSON IS IN THE CENTER, NOT THE PROBLEM Based advisers should be a complete image of man, that man in its entirety is important and is given appropriate space.Also we need to distinguish facts from the person making them. It is necessary to make distinction between what is man and what he makes. Person must always accepted, even if sometimes they reject the facts.

To recite a poem, are ... It might not be rich, Let me not to wear fashion, Do not live in a villa, Not that I nimik impress, And do not ever be won a popularity contest ......Through counseling, light and hope back in the man who lies in darkness and trouble. Sad experiences of life is deep in our nest. Darkness-suffering on the path of life, perhaps to follow, to give a hand in front of light that penetrates and, in her unusual way, offering contrast and meaning of life.

Neither the frail being should not give up.

Empathy-Each Other

A bear of care means that new, we care deeply and honestly, regardless of circumstances, the man that needs to see and want to fulfillment. Carrying the facts lead to care full of love and compassion. Is your work the best when it expresses its sympathy in an environment marked by care.

As adviser is important to pay attention. Usa For consiliatului soul be opened by himself with a key inside. We may open the door for people using a master key from outside, even when DE Ravni are motivated to help. You have to respect the advice and not force him to accept help, woodpecker out the door can be done outside, but the initiative must always belong consiliatului.What do you do? "Is a question that should always guide us in this work.People living with relations with each other. November and influence are influenced by others, not just on the surface, but at the deepest level of life. Even the image itself is touched. Swiss writer and psychoanalyst Alice Miller-4 talks about the attitudes of human rights - as keys to a state of good health.

At each meeting of people, there would be the attitudes of the 4, because the trust was created by them to make him the man to feel pleasurable.1) Everyone has to be seen and heard. Is not enough just to look a man. For him to feel good that someone needed to see and listen and really care what she has to say. should have the opportunity to express needs, feelings and thoughts.2) Everyone must be recognized. A dialogue must lead to real communication, in which the person feels accepted by statements like "You're good enough and I accept what I like." In order to feel good, each needs to hear such expressions of recognition of their people.3) Everyone should be respected. Even if you do not share the same views or way of life with a person, it must be respected and must be given the space necessary for existence. We can not ignore the needs, feelings or experience, or even thoughts, concepts or dreams. He does not always mean to disagree, but be ready to listen and to give proper space.

4) Everyone must be involved. Involvement is a condition for development and welfare of each individual. When someone is left outside, this leads to loneliness il offering a part of your time to someone else, sharing experiences and promoting dialogue contribute to the unity and partasiei. Those who participate in something ... grow.

Name Empathy

An important concept in counseling is "empathy." Word empathy comes from the Greek empatheia, where em is "in" path and the "feeling". So this word means "feeling inside, experience and capacity of involvement, understanding and experience of feelings that a man has or inside. Empathy means understanding the inner world of another person's feelings and identify with it. Counselor is empathy for how to share internal life of other people. From "outside" the adviser can understand different parts of the "interior" consiliatului.

A servant who has developed a capacity empathy can comprehend or understand what is behind the reactor, challenges and feelings of a person. Such a servant has a greater ability to face these reactions in a manner appropriate and wise and not let too easily led by their feelings.Capacity empathy is a central place in counseling and is based both on personality and adviser on his experiences of meeting with other people. Empathy is the ability to switch from live feeling! Intellectual Assessment of the situation. Therefore, the counselor should also develop the capacity to face their feelings and the ability to communicate their feelings with others. Empathy does not answer questions consiliatului and you worry with it, but walk with it a while and you share life.

Many of our personal skills develop early, even during childhood. As adviser is important to you and keep you permanently develop "the ability of empathy." In a relationship-advice empathy develops in three steps. When the counselor listen and perceive a sense, the Understanding empathy.Therefore advise that emits signals behavior empathy, for example, through gestures, words, voice or touch, thus showing that there is this agreement. Then follow the confirmation of empathy from receiving aid-such as understanding of perceived empathy to understand adviser. And this confirmation can be achieved by words, gestures and positive answers. In other words, empathy is a relationship between adviser and advised.

Empathy have also understood in a larger context. A concept that appeared at the beginning of 2000 - about the care and protection of labor rights is "contextual empathy. The term comes from the word meaning the context-fact state of things in a certain time. This includes the ability to judge correctly the environment in which lives and moves the client. It is important we can correctly solve the present situation, so that we can better PERSON!.In fact since the 1990s came the expression "social competence" which is used to describe a person's ability to report correctly and successfully to other people. Johny Alm a consultant - the organization has formulated a practical definition of the concept of "social competence" which contains six parts.

First social competence is the ability to determine quickly connect with other, to successfully initiate a contact. This involves creating an interest towards the other person, without communication conflicts and developing trust.In this way it creates conditions for continued collaboration. In counseling this means that it is important we can quickly establish a first contact to work ... but not just the surface.Secondly, social competence is the ability to use the contact set in a mutually productive exchange. Productivity - is one that generates a positive result for both sides. In counseling this means that important work is honest, the counselor is, indeed, present.

In counseling this means that important work is honest, the counselor is, indeed, present. Thirdly, social competence is the ability to maintain communication with everyone, regardless of the values, interests or other specific other person. The advice - this means the ability to have relationships and to collaborate, even if the distance between REAL life consiliatului adviser and is very high.Social competence is in the fourth-place capability to transform the simple touch of the start in a channel, transforms it into a deep communication. There are different dimensiunule allow life to go out and the complexity of the relationship to grow.This means the ability to allow both LENGTH and depth of life in the areas of collaboration. Social competence in the V-th row means the ability of a progressive and constructive exchange dealing. No longer strangers to one another. Provide and receive information, feelings and understanding. In counseling this means the ability to submit changes and constructive solutions.

Social competence (VI century) all mean the ability to face difficult questions of life-in this collaboration, to be understanding and mature enough to resist even if the communication is apasatoare, difficult. Counseling in this means the ability to endure what is essential and significant in life, even if it is inconvenient and traumatic. The concept of "contextual empathy" shows us that it is important to have the capacity to meet both the individual's context, and context in itself. Understanding and correct interpretation of the environment in which the individual lives his life has a great significance.

Nobody living for himself. Nobody lives in an isolated environment. We are all influenced by incessant suvoiul impression that you need to keep for ourselves. Such advice - be done in this comprehensive. Consiliatul so that the person's problems and be seen from the perspective of his entire life. Empathy means AI Knowledge life.

Empathy-Service

Slujirii principle applies to work in counseling, because there is a danger in the nature of the situation to assist a temptation as one that helps to take a role in the relationship with the wrong consiliatul. Servant role is to strengthen the initiative consiliatului and not to seek to have authority over him.Pregnancy servant is free not to create dependency. His goal is to help for a while, not to be indispensable.This means that the help should be interested consiliatului sake and not for his tendency to exercise authority over it and need to be recognized.

In short it means to serve people from outside, not inside. We 're thinking with joy to the true love that unites people and tzese vietzi together. But in a situation to help the opposite is true, to love lives of people outside.Keeper merdical strives to facilitate patient insanatosirea for quick to go back to a life that does not have need of care. Social worker helps the client to live an independent life, I have no need of social assistance. When students leave school, teachers will be to see both strong and will meet, and in terms of skills.Adviser goal is not to work with consiliatii a long time, but help to return to an independent life. Is an expression of love, of the same is excessive. The hardest is true empathy and connects this with the need to work out in life and counseled the person inside. This requires both reflection and training involves both aware and a clarity of role. There is a paradoxical about all this: The Love MORE, the suffering MORE, so you must work outside in one's life, so as not to create dependency on us.

There are even parents-those who see their children growing small through youth and maturity-reaching that I do not know if life is trying to possess someone, no matter how minute, are not only law and close.Our task is to go to each others own growth and for an extension of life in many dimensions.Through this process of sharing love, we go people while our direct presence in their lives is reduced .. but that does not mean that our love for them is smaller. Instead ... .... true love is so free and liberating, and it is never confirmed by the dependence or submission. Therefore servant empathy is a "facilitator" not an intermediary but a mediator, a supporter, one need help, but without law.

Counselor-to this way of working people's life, not to create dependency is a matter of survival. It is desirable to involve exaggerated consiliatului much alive, and so afectandu integrity. It is not fair that to happen.
Primarily to serve ... Without abuse. Never consiliatul not be or behave in a certain way for the counselor, for the sake of it. At that help should not be using any one person or situation for them to solve their own disappointments or to strengthen their self image.

Empathy - Defense Mechanisms

Defense mechanisms "Difficult to develop and mature" Life is full of difficulties and trials. (He said that today anyone?) Sometimes experiences are so complicated that it is difficult to accept in consciously. Defense mechanisms involve a certain way to feel, think or act, aimed excercitarea a check on decisions and difficulties. All people have some psychological defense mechanisms. They represent a natural and normal proetectia against various attempts of life and come into operation automatically. In certain situations are absolutely essential and most often are triggered in the unconscious.

Psychological defense mechanisms are equally important both for survival mind that defend the body immunity, as well as physically. At one point, the man is helped by defense mechanisms. By distorting reality, defense mechanisms protect the person during the tests so that it is to maintain confidence in themselves and balance inside.Distortions of reality - help the person concerned to defend themselves from unpleasant experiences, and the unpleasant feelings of anxiety. When defense mechanisms are used to a lesser extent or occasionally in difficult situations, they have a positive role in helping a person. They provide solutions for time to be followed by other rezolvari practical, sustainable solutions and verifiable.

It is natural that the defense mechanisms to be used for a short time, until it gained the power needed to face reality. But defense mechanisms do not remove the real causes of conflict, but we only issued temporary frustrare.Desi defense mechanisms are necessary and many situations of life have an important role, they can create and distort probleme.Pot important circumstances of life may mean leading to the formation of false conceptions about life.When the defense mechanisms acting a long time, they can hide anything, that would be great to have meet you, difficult as they mature and personal development.

DEFENSE-may be due to serious complications and diseases of the individual. The advice is important to know the functions and significance of defense mechanisms, at least to understand the people who pass through the crisis. As a counselor it is important to be able to identify different types of defense and know how to approach them.It is also important to develop your ability to identify situations in which defense mechanism-a positive feature when they have a negative effect and should be taken. Defense can never be removed if consiliatul himself is not ready for that. Counselor can help the board to acquire the necessary resources and be ready to face reality! Only when the time is ripe for removing favorable defense mechanisms. for this need ADVICE AND EXPERIENCE>

1) Denial One of the most common mechanisms of defense is deny. This defense means that in reality, the person rejects or overlooks view unpleasant experiences. Although she received no information recorded in consciousness. He heard, yet never heard. He saw he had not yet seen. The person I was able to take the truth. Knowledge produced a pain.Denial - is a normal reaction when people are in a state of shock. For example. a person whose doctor has explained that suffer from a disease that threatens life can go home and behave like he was a muscle-bound, not something serious. ADEVARUL was a part and denied it.Of course, it is important that gradually denial be interrupted and the truth get in consciously. During negarii person has time to gather power and to be ready to face the truth. Then there is no need for defense. Person because of his available resources to face reality, even if it is still painful.

2) removing -Involves removing awful experiences are fully aware of the remote and far away subconsciously. This may be sad about memories, feelings or negative ofense, experimentation of disasters, accidents, abuse. Memories are removed, but they still exist and continue to influence behavior and feelings of such person. Sometimes the reaction may be found difficult to understand, both for the person concerned and for the close. Only the effects are visible, and not their origin.

3) Transfer Transfereara-is a defense mechanism used sometimes as a reaction to various aggressive actions. It means that the man assaulted romance feelings or directs his reaction to something less threatening or something neutral. Aggressiveness to move from what, in fact, should they be subject to something non-hazardous and can not be revenge. An example is the child who is mad on his parents, but his mania download on toys. Another example is parents who let his irritation that turn up on children at home, instead directed to an employer that is because its real iritarii. Transferring seems to be a solution, but in fact it provides only a temporary one mollification assaulted.

4) regress Regression is an ordinary defense. Regression is a return to childish behavior. May regress both the facts and in the regression runs gandire.Prin of responsibility and other unpleasant experience in this way to avoid facing reality. The person becomes helpless and dependent. Is smaller than it is real and thus has a positive treatment from others, receive more aid, and care is served. A classic example is the child who has a brother who, emotional and behavioral regreseaza to enjoy again the increased attention from parents. Even adults can regress. When you meet difficulties such as offense, illness or claims too much by others, may become totally helpless. This is a positive reaction for a while, while they gather resources to look reality in the face. The problem occurs when the regression becomes a habit, a constant and convenient way to escape from reality.

5) Streamline Rationalization is more a defense mechanism-that we encounter in seeking to rationalize consiliere.PRin sensitive and rational reasons for different actions. Consiliatul gradually trying to improve reality. This can be done by describing and explaining events in such a way as to be easier to address them and to bear. Person tries to find logical explanations for the failures suffered in place to assume responsibility and understand the truth. The most clear rationaliari occur when the image itself is affected. An example is used in which an athlete or a team loses a match. Rather than admit that they were defeated by a better opponent, those concerned to explain! loss saying "such that the referee" was incorrect "or as" the best player got hurt. " Rationalization-is an unusual phenomenon even in relationships, because it offers a way to get rid of personal responsibility.

6) PROJECTS By projection-person transfer their designs or your own feelings and reasons other people. There are features that we like or you do not want to see in ourselves. Assign to others opinions and negative characteristics in our place to get to us. Projection is used as a defense mechanism against - unacceptable behavior and feelings. For example, people can design-own aggression on another person. Thus, no longer think of themselves and do not need to take responsibility reaction concerned. Someone else is revealed! fingers because it is "zgarcit" or "Curious", rather than see those traits in their life. Course-projection is only an apparent solution. It should be replaced with the courage to accept reality and bold to face. Long-term projection is a drag in the way of empathy, tolerance and autocriticii. The opposite is always somewhere else, not in your own life with her weaknesses.

7) INTELECTUALIZAREA Intelectualizarea - shows lack of connection between thought and feeling, when there is a feeling experience. Sometimes people who have been through terrible experiences, I can report them and to describe the wealth of information without sentimentally involved. In this case it is a defense mechanism that effectively distanteaza person those experiences. Thus - Stories of experiences are mechanical, just a reproduction of their neutral incidents. The defense simply stop all feelings appropriate, as they are unbearable. Intelectualizarea may occur for example-about their experiences during the war, with sexual abuse, to disasters or accidents, disappointment or rejection. For a while it may be a strategy for survival, but gradually, the person must recognize his feelings for you can look in the face troubles that took place.

Empathy - Tears

Room for sentiment "important function of cleaning," we all have a soul whether woman or man "So men cry sometimes :-) Often that advice is going to be overwhelmed by many different feelings, even feelings, which are sometimes called "negatives" such as rautatea, aggression, mania, amaraciunea, hatred, envy and jealousy. In the process of counseling should be given room to show even those feelings.They exist and can not be denied or stop. One of the major responsibilities and hear when listening to these feelings is the power to face, to address and support.

There is always a source of these feelings, experience and experiments. Although we can not always identify these links, feelings need to be addressed and processed. Removing out of discussing their feelings and can be very threatening and painful.We all have a sentimental life, processing of feelings can take time, but leads eventually to the healing and liberation. It also must have room for plans. Plans are always a message. Therefore, it is important to listen. Plans to open the path so you can go and where words have no access. Plans are an important function of cleaning, it is "laundry soul.

Of course in our culture there is room for plans. There are unwritten cultural laws that we can run more than suspect us. Do not cry in different circumstances of life is power and quickness. Tears in our society is something private and often very carefully concealed. Many people say that can not cry, though it will do.It is interesting to take a look back in history on plans, in our part of the world, in Europe. Plans were not always as we perceive today in November. Middle Ages people were used to strong feelings. Everybody cry, both women and men, regardless of their social position. Tears were something beautiful and enlightening.

INABILITY to cry was considered a mental disorder. Even in the years 1500-1600 it was normal to show feelings in public. In the Swedish parliament, is often heard one complained vociferously. Tears were all allowed regardless of position, age or sex. This openness has continued through the years until 1700. A beautiful "culture" complained develop. Plans were regarded as something noble.In early 1800 - has produced a change. Plans disappeared, which was customized to the public on feminizat above it. Now it was inappropriate for a man to cry. In the second half of 1800 years was crying already considered funny, something that was found only in women and children. It was not appropriate to show your strong feelings in public. Plans indicate weakness and sentimentalism.

In 1900, the mentality has remained almost the same. Plans but it is useful to man. If you miss the tears become more poor. Plans do well the entire body. When people cry is issued hormone called acetylcholine. It helps relax tense muscles. After you cry you feel wonderful, pleasant experience fatigue and a body is at rest.Did you show any emotions is quite natural

Mercado De Ambulancia

Estoy seguro de que lo que usted le pida a discutir este tema, que espera a que escriba sobre frutas, hortalizas o verduras, pero es el fin, sino el hecho de que la sociedad en que vivimos a menudo se asemejan a un mercado ambulanta.poti comprar o pedir prestado un montón de gestos para ayudarle a más o menos ... pero muchas veces nos despertamos estamos celebrando alguna extraña gestos hacia el pueblo (me refiero a aquellos que critican a un emo).

Hay un dicho y juro no robar y yo le tasa en la boca "de lo que trata todo esto? Para ver que una cosa que muy a menudo, muy bueno cuando juzgamos a una persona sino que se quiebra en nosotros mismos la correcta (aquí me refiero a los que dan como omnisciente).Hablamos la corrección automática, pero tampoco te veías en el espejo para ver lo que está, me temo que los defectos que veo y me mira lucru.Un que la caza es muy astuto a la hora de CIN vineze caza, por lo que y que usted está interesado sólo culpar a los defectos de los ojos aproape.Ai mejor cuando se trata de decirle a tu vecino defectos, pero usted no puede ver porque usted es ciego, ciego, pero no un humano, pero sin la ciega sin una el alma.

Un médico puede salvar muchas vidas, pero no para salvar a su, por lo que es un albañil que construye casas, pero otros quedarse en casa para caer en un emo temeli.Sa comparar con una cocina para cocinar en un restaurante. El servicio de buffet es diferente puede cocinar para su pueblo y para sí mismo, ya que es un emo y comprender que es el mismo con él, pero que entienden y que no es emo ...¿Cómo se puede entender a un paciente si está sano tun? ¿Cómo se puede entender una emo si no eres emo? Nadie puede entender usted enfermo hasta que no estás en la cama de modo que sufren no es un emo de entender todos los datos hasta el momento en que un emo se le emo ... Bueno eso es muy justo decir que asa.Nu usted es el conductor cuando no se tiene ninguna carenetul de sofer.Cercetind mundo con buenos ojos que descubrirá cosas que no has visto Nini los datos incluso si se tratara de diarios en virtud de la nariz ...

Trato de ascimbi papel de la caza en la temporada de caza ... entonces usted va a entender cómo se va a ocultar al chico paliza ...

A New World

To not make you scratch your head in wonder in front of this article, I will say from the beginning of what is.

We decided to make a more general about the world of your dreams, for necunoscartori before passing the matter off the title of the article of the front and a "new world" I decided to present in a few big ideas about steps you receive the current emo.Each appearance of a stream or musical genre does not come without criticism there, now refer to it only current emo.

One of the most controversial topics which peaked at critics is suicidal young emo but cutting veins,from a date not matter if you're emo or emo kids style, because all first in the same pot (if you can tell).People and critics stinta people have chosen to eliminate steps in this very transparent emo trend, it introduces some new rules themselves.

Asamblu those steps in trying to attract attention from a real emo emo amaprent, ie name of company to appoint emo suicidal,A survey conducted by me in the young days of the claim is a emo meet the following requirements:Disappearance of the dam internship emo emo to a universal (if we may say so), I mean the abandonment of the state of solitude in the state said so happy...

Waiver of style that makes the difference from the very late types of music at the Classical style (or simple).Another desire is to compromise the true emo with a clan (you can call it emo, but not really emo).It seems like too much to ask for the current emo, or will not know what I mean by a current which resists to stay up despite the struggles of going bankrupt.

Wanted heroes heroes ... but are willing to be looking for ?

I think you can remove this virus (if we can say that), showing men in front of all attacks from the bad facatorilor not take place in November that is the emo generation, there is no need for a war it is necessary to remain countries in our inward,I need to buy public opinion is enough if the place rami Ende mean you are now the veghe.Nu allows you niminui cord life, be yourself.Last week at work I asked a colleague Alex ... I noticed that lately are you different, I mean you're very stupid ... Do not get into town, dress only in black, you hear other genres of music ..

Well I said I can not do all those listed so that you are an emo ... emo da da devil that.well, well ... if you say you take my hand and tell me the devil (while I amused him).They actually consider it as an emo devil, the saddest thing is that I have met so called emo, but in reality they had to do with emo, but really missed was emo clothes...What remains to be done? E Well you give up? There is only one maioneta used by people, but be yourself ...

Being what you are saying it is great!